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After Struggling With My Sexual Desires – I Discovered The Unthinkable!

I remember when I started dating, sex couldn’t have been better! Everything felt so wanting and felt so wild and free.

I would listen to some of my friends declaring how they loved their partners but did not feel as sexually attracted to them as before.

They would say how their sexual desires had gone way down and how they would force themselves every night to act like everything was okay but in reality, it wasn’t.

At some point that made me wonder how it could be possible to love and at the same time not feel sexually attracted to your partner.

Well surprisingly as years went by the unthinkable happened I came to find myself in the same shoes!

My sex drive started to wane; it went from hot sex and romance to a complete desert of deprived fulfillment. We used to do it daily but graduated to once every 3 weeks.

I must confess having different sexual desires with your partner can be very devastating.

Loss of sexual desires in women is very common and the saddest part it’s not like men’s complaints of erectile dysfunction, which can be medically cured. For women, you are not likely to get cured just by merely popping a pill.

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So one day I thought, “Something had to change before it’s too late!”

I knew something had to change but didn’t know what to do.

I tried reading sex education books, listen to relationship advisors but nothing changed I still found myself struggling to bring back my sexual desires.

So one day I came across an interesting name on a book cover, which I ended up buying. That time I wasn’t that confident reading a romance book in public so I would read it in closed doors.

This marked the beginning of my love for romance novels!

The book was very interesting plus with time I found out it really turned me on in a major way.

So what did I do?

I would pounce at my boyfriend and give it to him like never before!

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Sex started to be great again. I remember reading about something then it hit me, “hmmm wow I like the idea, I think I should give it a try.”

When my boyfriend figured what had brought about the change he didn’t mind, he would tease me and we would laugh and keep on.

With time I became completely open-minded about the romance novels and was thankful that it rescued my sinking relationship.

One thing I came to learn and tell most of my friends is that, even if you think your sex life and your relationship is great, it is not always going to stay that way forever.

You need to find ways that would spice up and add some excitement to your relationship. There are many deeper and greater ways that would really help you in improving your relationship, which does not necessarily mean changing sexual positions but so much more.

Surprisingly enough just as books are an amazing source of knowledge, reading such novels helped me download the knowledge and the ideas of others and upload them into my brains.

Whether you feel you are extremely confident in bed, there is always a great reason why you should be open minded and be willing to learn more!

This would make your future experiences better!

The following are 5 lessons I have learned from reading romance novels that you may be missing out big time!

  1. Sex is more than just physical.

Our sexual connection runs deep inside and hits us at our most vulnerable!

There is always an emotional connection whenever you are intimate with someone, therefore you should be careful who you sleep with.

The connection is usually so much stronger than the physical.

Romantic erotic novels helped me to discover how to connect emotionally with my partner and be able to reciprocate it in bed.

  1. Communication in the bedroom is key.

Experimenting with different things in bed can be good, however, if you feel uncomfortable with some you should always say so.

The new ideas may be great but as soon as you begin feeling nervous, you have to put a stop onto that and a good partner will appreciate and respect your honesty.

  1. There’s always something new to try.

Having said that (point 2), this does not necessarily mean that this should be the end of your ideas, No!

The sex world is full of different new positions and styles, all you have to do is go and explore them!

  1. Learn to embrace your inner freak!

This includes the good, the bad and the weird. You should own every fantasy that you have ever imagined!

Trust me freakiness won’t send your partner running, but instead, it will make him stay glued to you since it makes everything in the bedroom to be more enticing!


  1. Sex is not just about orgasm!

For women, sometimes sex feels so good without an endgame!

There should be no race to an organism, take it as a journey full of pleasure and sensation.

Most of the time when a man focuses on making his woman orgasm, a very high probability she won’t.

But when you slow down and focus on your partner’s sensations, you will both relax and be able to enjoy every single bit which may lead to an intense orgasm.

Well as I conclude, I would like to say this 2019 I nominate Sam Crescent & Stacy Espino to join the list of my best fiction, erotica, romance authors!

I have been reading one of his book series Killer of Kings and if you haven’t read it yet, you are really missing out.

Below is a short book review of the eBooks in this series, trust me they are very interesting!

  1. Hard to Get.

“Shadow keeps to himself, never mixing business with pleasure. Business is killing. Pleasure is the girl next door”

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  1. Claiming His Prize.

“He never planned to take her…

There was something about the waitress with the black eye. She made him remember where he came from, and he knew he couldn’t stand back and do nothing.”

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  1. El Diablo.

“Is the devil capable of love?

Can a killer fall in love with his cleaner, or will he add her to his hit list?

Xavier doesn’t do trust. He breaks. He kills. After living through hell, he’s transformed himself into El Diablo, the baddest motherfucker around.

His only weakness is the sister he lost as a child—the one Boss promises to help him locate. The only catch is he has to work for Killer of Kings and learn to play nice with the other hitmen. He does his job, determined to prove himself.

Then she walks into his life, and nothing is ever the same.”

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  1. Taking Her Innocence.

“With the odds against them, and death waiting around every corner, can they find true love in each other? Or is Viper only interested in taking her innocence?

Viper has always been a bastard, a nightmare, death for hire. He’s known for his swift kills, so he isn’t surprised when he’s offered seven figures for a new hit.

It’s supposed to be a quick find and eliminate. When his mark turns out to be an innocent twenty-year-old with big blue eyes, he shouldn’t care one way or another—but he does. Viper wants to keep her for himself.”

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  1. Broken Bastard.

“No mercy. No pity. No women.

Bain has always worked solo, refusing to allow anyone to lord over him. His life has been fucked up enough, and he’s learned trust comes with a price.

Scarlett struggles to move up in a career where appearances are everything. She wants to hate Bain but finds herself intrigued by his story. Is it the reporter in her wanting to know more…or the woman falling for a broken man?”

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  1. Charming Asshole.

“He’s a killer. She’s raising his son. He’s coming back for both of them.” What will happen?

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Do Romance Novels Break or Build You? – Find Out Here, You Will Be Surprised!

I’m sure you must have heard the common statement of the romance novel haters “Romance novels give unrealistic expectations about love”

Well, they couldn’t be more wrong. However, given the chance the romance novels do more than that, they have great benefits which I have shared at the end of this article.

There’s a beautiful feeling of being able to read an epic romance story and fantasies about them in your head rather than watching it on screen. WHY?

Reading allows readers to picture the ideal character stretching all the way from how they kiss to how they talk, walk e.t.c it easier for you to imagine at some point that you are the character thus bringing a sense of entertainment to the reader.


You feel romantic novels don’t deal with “important issues”?

Well, according to Psychologist Alexis Conason romance novels help most readers to be able to identify their personal desires and build confidence in themselves. They are an exploration of love!

At the heart of it all, they do show readers how to appreciate the concept of love by acknowledging the fact that being affectionate is what every human thing craves for, thus empowering them to be open-minded.

Admittedly, not every romance novels share these features some may be so flat and some very entertaining, this is why you should always take your time to find the right author or book that you feel you so much relate.

According to Fong, romantic book readers understand other people so much better than those who don’t read.

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You think all romance novels are all the same? Absolutely not!

In taking a great romantic journey with your romance novel from steamy catchy descriptions of racing heartbeats, display of a beautiful magic of happiness, love and loyalty readers get a better chance of exploring thus learning important life lessons such as being able to make mistakes in love and solve them, how to communicate and most of all loyalty both personally and with your partner.

A great romance novel has the ability to provide lessons for people of any age whether you are 20 or 50 there is always something significant to be learned, thus stretching the relationship we have with different people who may extend beyond romance to friendship and family life.

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Here are my 3 main reasons why I love romance novels.

  1. They explore all the different types of love.
  2. They help me gain a much better understanding of relationships.
  3. They are more than just sex.

Are you in a relationship?

The following are 3 reasons why romance novels would help strengthen your relationship:

  1. Improves a couple’s ability to empathize.

Empathy is what makes us be able to make joint decisions as couples, forgive each other without holding grudges and assist in conflict resolution.

Romance novels increase empathy thus helps a lot in improving people’s ability to be able to empathize, through reading other couple’s experiences which in return help you to better understand each other.

  1. Creates better communication in couples.

The romantic stories not only need to entertain you but also give you something that would be of value in your relationship.

Well, obviously romance novels come with romantic relationships and conflicts but it is the couple’s fights and misunderstandings, confusions and crossed wires that show couples how these miscommunications begin and how they can avoid them. This is a great learning experience for couples.

  1. Great way to improve your sex life and take it to the next level.

Erotic romance novels that are filled with titillating foreplay, steamy sex scenes, and sexual tension would really help in inspiring new ideas in your sex life.

They would not only inspire new ideas but instead, they would create a healthy sex life between couples.

A healthy sex life equals a stronger bond in couples. According to research, most couples lose interest so fast from their partners because of boring sex.

If you feel like your interest in sex is declining then try reading an erotic romance novel it will most likely help you.

Having shared all the advantages that may benefit you from reading romance novels, it is very important to take note of the fact that you should control yourself.

Try to limit yourself from becoming over addicted to erotic romance novels, since they may bring out some negative effects.

We are proud to support romance novels, below it’s a list of some of the best romance novels that you should definitely take a look at.

You can download them in digital formats that way you will read them and entice yourself secretly without being judged.

  1. Cross The Line.

Have you ever read a book which you kept wishing it never ends, then this is it!

The book is well written, thoughtfully devolved and plotted!

The story is about Phoebe. Phoebe has been in love with his brother’s best friend Nate ever since they were young teens, she was five and he was nine.

She tried every way possible to seduce Nate, and make him notice her but unfortunately for her, nothing seemed to work Nate never acknowledges her existence.

Nate is a handsome and very protective man. The book doesn’t say much about Nate, we don’t know what he is feeling or thinking. We are also kept in the dark like Phoebe, however, this really helps in connecting with Phoebe.

Nate joined the military and disappeared for 10 years, however, Phoebe remained obsessed with him and couldn’t think of anyone else other than him.

She still had hope that somehow when he returned he would finally acknowledge her and love her as much as she did.

After years of waiting for him to come back, she finally convinced herself to move on and hate Nate with the help of her best friend.

Does she forget him? Or Will Nate ever love her?

Not only is this book so fun to read, but it is also very interesting due to its twists and turns that would keep you from putting the book down.

The book is full of adventure, comedy, and romance. I would find myself smiling on my own like an idiot, laughing out loud and groan audibly in frustration while reading this book.

I must say the author Julie Johnson is hysterically funny! Herself insights were very entertaining.

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  1. Weekend Book Series by Barbara Powell.

If you love an amazing book series that leave you wanting more, then grab this book series!

Book 1: My First Weekend.

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Book 2: My Weekend Away.


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Book 3: My Tropical Weekend.


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Book 4: My Secluded Weekend.


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Book 5: My weekend at Home.


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Bad Penny Book Review (Fiction & Romance).

Series: Smart Sexy Nerds.

By: Jocelyn Adler

Category: Fiction, Romance, Erotic.


When I first read this book I thought “This book is masterfully done and it should be made into a movie!” This is my personal review.

This book is about a young lady called Penny. Well at first her life seems perfect; an interesting job, a great landlord who happens to be her roommate and her best friend too. But just when Penny believes her life was perfectly stable, everything changed all at once!

Her best friend wants a kid with her; her boss wants her to change her career position. At some point in the book, Penny seems lost and lonely with some of her life choices hunting her. Well as you read along, the book becomes even more and more interesting.

Penny is a character of her own heart. She has a contemporary character and is able to deal with difficult situations that may come on her way. Well apart from that she is a sophisticated female character, a modern woman comfortable in her own body, she always knows what she wants and has no problem getting what she desires.

Apart from her dominating career path, she’s a lover of Netflix, comics and is a fashionista of tank tops with no bra!

Apart from her active sexual life, all she ever wants is to be in a relationship with someone who is willing to respect her career choices as well as her dominating equally.

The book is well-written; there are some twists and turns making an interesting storyline, an amazing tempo and tension. You get to see the character in all manners, through her perfections, her flaws and faults. She has a degree, life has had a fair share of difficulties, and she goes to therapy e.t.c.

The thought of a young lady having to deal with so much hit me clearly in this book. It is so easy to fall in love with Penny!


What I Didn’t Like About The Book…

There are so many characters in the book although they play a significant role in Penny’s life.

There are so many hot steamy and witty scenes in this book, thus one may accidentally focus on them instead of the protagonist internal conflict of Penny.

However, if you enjoy female characters who are sexually active and are not ashamed of their sexuality this book is definitely for you.

Why not let this young lady’s journey of love be your guilty pleasure today!

You can buy it for only $2.99

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Other books in these series include:

  • Bad Decisions goes for only $2.99 

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